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BAD DAYS LEAD TO HAPPY ENDING!!

Does Rejection poke you and affect you mentally? Let me share an incident that might have occurred to you; sometimes by seeing the success of your friend you feel quite low which causes your day-to-day action more depressing, more tainted, or chafing. Like finger pinpoints on you WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE? DON'T YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL? AM I A FAILURE/LOSER?


Well, the reason I can spotlight this is. Recently I faced this situation, and the impact that happened was that it shattered my day-to-day activity. The un-well brainiac made me more lethargic than ever before and by the end of the day, I would feel guilty as well as stressed and simply condemn myself for wasting another ravishing day.


Let me elaborate a little. My summer break started and I had little to do in activity. So I started peeking for an internship to keep myself occupied, but as a fresher, you don't get opportunities knocking on your door. You had to be patient, which I was not, which led to me over-think, frustrated, lost in my thoughts, visionless of the world, and over the top; cherry of my cake (Social Media) makes you always doubt your worth.


FACT: Rejection makes you STRONG, helps you to evolve from your past, and blends you to make you grow for your better tomorrow.



After being rejected from many companies for an internship it affected me mentally. As my pals of the same caliber were able to avail that opportunity and were doing good in their life. I was happy for them but a slight, I did begrudge them too. Slowly the toxicity was growing in me as concurrent rejection and triumph of my pals were making me take impulsive and vital decisions in my day-to-day life. 


And after a couple of weeks, it made me think what am I doing, this is not me and I ought to transform myself, I can't have haunting vibes near me & that bold decision made me able to overcome it, which was tough but gradually it works.


I started taking small steps which I would like to share with you:

  1. keeping myself well-groomed as well as the surroundings around me. 

  2. Enhanced my photography skill. do have a cherished look at my page https://www.instagram.com/sarang_joshii/. And 

  3. Most importantly, I tried to maintain a proper Schedule.

  4. Started peeking for new opportunities.

  5. spending more time with family by tucking off with social networks in a week once.

And that's it, these were the 5 mantras I practiced and now 15 days have passed, and fairly enough I am doing good not perfect but good. I started writing this blog on 1/6/2022 and as a record, kept a note of it so that I would share it with you guys, initially, if you are going through the same scenario knowingly or unknowingly might help you.


FUN FACT: Colonel Harland Sanders a Man who Started at 65 and was rejected 1009 Times Before Succeeding.


“One has to remember that every failure can be a stepping stone to something better.”

- Colonel Harland Sander (Brand ambassador of KFC)


I would be keen to know in the comment section, as your worthy stake of recommendation, the experience would surely help me as well as my readers as a glimmer of rays in their life.


-Stillwriting.






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    1. Wow, thank you for the inspirational words! I never thought about using my writing skills for ghostwriting or providing value in a niche topic. I'll make sure to follow your advice and get some bitchess while I'm at it. And don't worry, I won't let my lack of a personal life or daily experiences hold me back from achieving greatness. Thanks again

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