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LOVE: BEYOND THE BUTTERFLIES

 When the Butterflies leave.... For context, I would highly recommend you read this first:  Attraction of Love The hardest part about heartbreak isn't that someone leaves.  It's accepting that they were never meant to stay. After Ross walked away, Ryan spent months trying to understand what had gone wrong. Like most of us, he searched for answers in old conversations, photographs, and memories, hoping to find the exact moment where love began to fall apart. But the truth was simpler than he imagined. Nothing changed overnight. The excitement did. And he had mistaken excitement for love. Time has a strange way of teaching lessons that people never can. One rainy evening, Ryan found himself sitting alone in a small café. At the table beside him sat an elderly couple. They weren't holding hands. They weren't taking pictures for social media. They weren't trying to prove anything to the world. They simply sat together. The old man quietly stirred his wife's tea befo...
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FIXING MY LIFE, ONE BAD IDEA AT A TIME

Life has a strange sense of humor. Or maybe I’ve learned to laugh before it gets the chance to hurt. Whenever something serious happens in my life something that should demand silence, reflection, or grief I crack a joke. I perform. I act like I’ve rehearsed this moment before. And to be honest, I act well. People buy it. They move on. But when the noise settles, when the audience disappears, there’s always a quieter voice left behind. What are the possibilities to fix this? That question doesn’t knock. It barges in. My mind opens files instantly. Hundreds of them. Possibilities line up like witnesses in a courtroom some absurd, some brilliant, most useless. I replay conversations that already ended. I rewrite endings that no longer belong to me. I negotiate with time, knowing very well it doesn’t negotiate back. And when it’s done, when every argument has been heard, the verdict is always the same. Too late. Nothing changes. The moment has passed. The damage is archived. All ...

OTHER'S SUCCESS STING THEN YOU OWN FAILURE

Let me ask you something: Have you ever felt that sharp, hot twist in your gut when someone else’s victory feels like a personal defeat? Like life handed them a golden ticket while you’re stuck holding a “try again later” scratch-off?   Yeah. Me too.   Let’s rewind. Picture this: It’s 3 AM. My laptop screen casts a ghostly glow as I stare at my 27th internship rejection email. The reason? “ Your three-month availability doesn’t align with our needs.” Translation: We want someone who’ll stick around long enough to memorize the coffee orders . I’m fresh out of graduation, armed with a master’s degree pursuit and a three-month void of what now? So, like any rational human, I do the thing. I open LinkedIn.   Big. Mistake.   Suddenly, my feed is a highlight reel of everyone else’s wins. Dia at Google. Faiyaz launching a startup. Emma's doing “meaningful work” in Bali (with a sunset backdrop, of course). My screen screams, Look at them thriving while yo...

MY SANDWICH STORY

  LIFE IS A PARTY, AND YOU ARE THE PINATA. - Adulthood  Man, it's been a while since I last wrote anything. Today's topic? Relatable, I bet. Life's on fast forward, and my friend seems to be lapping everyone in this race. Scrolling through Instagram, I see their snapshots. I'm happy for them, but also, it feels damn, they've come so far. It feels like I'm stuck at the starting line they left behind. Then it hits me – this is adulthood. Suddenly, I get why that damn Ross from Friends freaked out over a stolen sandwich. We all start at the same place, but the racecourse itself changes. My friend might've reached their goal, but they're probably envious of someone else's achievement too. We're all just trying to walk a mile in someone else's shoes, right? Even writing this feels like a release. Every word type feels like a weight off my chest. This whole "adulting" thing is unsettling, and finding my groove will take time. Remember tha...

LOVE: NAVIGATING THE MAZE OF EMOTIONS

Attraction of LOVE . A simple four-letter word, yet powerful enough to inspire poetry, start wars, heal broken souls, and change the course of lives. It asks for nothing but sincerity. It doesn't recognize wealth, status, caste, religion, or appearance. True love sees a soul before it sees a face. But somewhere between growing up and growing older, many of us begin to mistake attraction for love. Perhaps that's why so many relationships today begin at lightning speed and end just as quickly. A few conversations become endless expectations. A few dates become promises of forever. The excitement feels so intense that we convince ourselves we've found "the one." But excitement and love are not the same. Attraction is instant. Love is intentional. Attraction is drawn to perfection. Love embraces imperfections. Attraction makes your heart race. Love gives your heart peace. Let me tell you the story of my imaginary friend, Ryan . Ryan belonged to a humble middle-class f...

DID YOU FIND YOUR BLUE MOON?

"Once in a blue moon" - that's how I'd describe my journey in life so far. I'm no expert or psychologist, but I'll share what I've learned from my own experiences. My past self was quite the wild child , but life had a way of bringing me back down to earth.  Here are a few tips that helped me evolve into a better person: 1 . Keep your inner circle small . I used to be an extrovert with a large circle of friends, but life taught me the importance of quality over quantity. A single friend who treats you well is worth more than a hundred acquaintances. 2 . Know when to hold your tongue . I used to have a short fuse and would always be ready to fight. But as I grew older and took on more responsibilities, I learned that sometimes it's better to step back from a heated situation and avoid a fight. Saying sorry is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of maturity. 3 . Keep your mind occupied . During the Covid pandemic, I had too much free time and my mi...

BAD DAYS LEAD TO HAPPY ENDING!!

Does Rejection poke you and affect you mentally? Let me share an incident that might have occurred to you; sometimes by seeing the success of your friend you feel quite low which causes your day-to-day action more depressing, more tainted, or chafing. Like finger pinpoints on you WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE? DON'T YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL? AM I A FAILURE/LOSER? Well, the reason I can spotlight this is. Recently I faced this situation, and the impact that happened was that it shattered my day-to-day activity. The un-well brainiac made me more lethargic than ever before and by the end of the day, I would feel guilty as well as stressed and simply condemn myself for wasting another ravishing day. Let me elaborate a little. My summer break started and I had little to do in activity. So I started peeking for an internship to keep myself occupied, but as a fresher, you don't get opportunities knocking on your door. You had to be patient, which I was not, which led to me over-thi...