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DID YOU FIND YOUR BLUE MOON?

"Once in a blue moon" - that's how I'd describe my journey in life so far. I'm no expert or psychologist, but I'll share what I've learned from my own experiences. My past self was quite the wild child, but life had a way of bringing me back down to earth. 

Here are a few tips that helped me evolve into a better person:

1. Keep your inner circle small. I used to be an extrovert with a large circle of friends, but life taught me the importance of quality over quantity. A single friend who treats you well is worth more than a hundred acquaintances.

2. Know when to hold your tongue. I used to have a short fuse and would always be ready to fight. But as I grew older and took on more responsibilities, I learned that sometimes it's better to step back from a heated situation and avoid a fight. Saying sorry is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of maturity.




3. Keep your mind occupied. During the Covid pandemic, I had too much free time and my mind started to wander into negative territory. So I made a conscious effort to keep myself busy and avoid overthinking.

4. Find your own form of meditation. For me, it's writing or listening to music. But everyone is different, so find what brings you peace and stick with it.

5. Bad days are just part of life. Don't overhype them. Every day has its ups and downs, so just keep grinding and pushing through. Don't let failure or success get to your head.

So, my friends, don't let the packaging of life fool you. Always see the material inside; is it worth it? Is it qualitative? And most importantly, don't settle for a life scenario; make it settle for you. It may seem twisted, but trust me, it will lead you to a more fulfilling life. And if all else fails, just remember that laughter is the best medicine. So, find joy in the little things and keep that passion for life burning bright! I could go on and share more life lessons, but I'll spare you the lecture. These are just some of the lessons I have learned from my own blue moon experiences. I hope they inspire you to reflect on your own life and find your own path to personal growth.


- Stillwriting

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