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HOW TO ENJOY BIRTHDAY WITHOUT LIGHTED CANDLE?

HAPPIE BIRTHDAY  !!
You might be thinking whose birthday is there today..but I am writing this blog today on the basis of the opinion which I hear mostly from people on the topic "BIRTHDAY"
Before moving forward just think first  "HOW DO YOU CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY"?
After talking to several people I reached to a conclusion that people who doesn't like birthday have common answer i.e. "why to celebrate our birthday,after all we get one year older not younger"? and people who love to celebrate their birthday have billions of different methods to celebrate it...and out off 40% people I guess 60% of people try to celebrate it in a lavish way....and that's where it hurts to me... cause I am that type of guy who loves to celebrate birthday but not in a fancy manner..


DO PLANTS TOO CELEBRATE BIRTHDAY???


From childhood I had seen my parents struggling for my better future..when we were a part of the struggle my parents gave me a wise advice "believe always in giving,not grabbing"...and it always stuck in my ears so every year on my birthday I decided to donate essential things to orphanage so they could relieve for a while atleast...I told this idea to my parents and in theirs eyes I can saw the happiness and might be thinking "that their son had grown up"..... 
so every year from my pocket money I buy things and donate to the orphanage early morning...and then start preparing for evening as my relatives and friends comes at home for a small get together and have a little fun time...and that's how my day ends...and this was my method of celebrating birthday and making new memories with my family and friends every years...

so the lesson of today's blog was I just want you to understand how to enjoy your birthday without a lighted cake....

-Stillwriting...  

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