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DOPAMINE!!!

Love is such a beautiful feeling, an emotion that pulps our heartbeat to the extreme. You know the beauty of love is it doesn't see how rich you are or from which caste, religion you belong. In short, I would like to state true love is pure.


Well, Today's GenZ who had not even hit puberty got a girlfriend. Between that age, all are crazy Their true love is just their attraction, it's not a feeling, but God knows who can explain. Well, some might offend but facts speak out of 100 only 5% of the childhood love stories are successful rest 95% are nothing just "Young, dumb and broke".
Now to handle the situation some move on(wise) whereas some are unable to digest and in that rush of hunger attraction they become desperate to find their true love and make some foolish choices in which some learn a lesson and same some don't.




Let me give you an example of my imaginary friend Robin,
Robin is from a middle-class family and during his college times he had an immense crush on a girl name Rumina and he thought that she mind be the one. Rumina was the heart of the college, everyone else too had a real crush on her. after a little coffee chat, buying the expensive gift. Robin proposed to Rumina and she said YESSS!!!

After 4 weeks the little fight started, then the big fight then breakup then patch-up and it all went on a loop.. but my imaginary friend maintain it well by apologizing and buying elegant gifts. The so-called relationship struggle for few more weeks then she dumped him and find a new match for her. and our guy broke again, not only by heart but money-wise adequate. He was from a middle-class family just to see her happy he spend every ounce of money he had.

That was heartbreaking for him, but proper moral support by his mates as well as his parents brought him back on his route. He was once in a blue moon case whereas all are not.

If you love someone by your pure soul overcoming it is difficult. I can say confidently the teen from my age has experienced pure love till date by their parents and will feel it till the end. No one can replace it.

Would suggest don't rush toward attraction, first take care of the pure love you already have the rest will join you soon.

-Stillwriting...

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